Rebel Clients, Resistance & the Real Reason They Push Back
Some clients just won’t follow the plan.
They question every suggestion. Resist every change.
It’s easy to label them as “non-compliant” or “not ready” — but what if something deeper is going on?
Rebel Clients Aren’t Being Difficult — They’re Being Protective
When a client pushes back or sabotages progress, it’s not always because they don’t want the outcome.
It’s often because their identity doesn’t feel safe with the change.
They’ve learned — often through childhood or past experiences — that following the rules, being seen, or getting better could lead to pain, punishment, or pressure.
So rebellion becomes protection.
Here’s What That Looks Like In Sessions:
Constantly changing the subject
Not doing what they agreed to between sessions
Resisting support even though they asked for it
Disappearing when progress starts happening
The Good News? You Don’t Have To Take It Personally
Emotion Release Technique (ERT) helps you see through the resistance and understand what’s underneath it.
You can meet your client with compassion — not frustration — and guide them to clear the subconscious blocks that are fuelling their need to rebel.
When you shift the emotional pattern, the rebellion softens. The client feels safer. The plan starts working.
Because what they were really resisting… wasn’t you — it was the internal conflict they couldn’t name.
Want to add Emotion Release Technique to your clinical toolbox?
Join the ERT Certification. To learn more about ERT and the Certification click here.